Friday, April 12, 2013

Boredom at the Airport: An Opportune Moment to Change your Life.


April 11th, 2013

Sitting at Gate 32 of MCO at four in the afternoon is an experience that teeters between intrinsically meditative and subtly aggravating to a point of devastation. The seating and carpeting is decked in an outdated hunter green and the terminal is only peppered with a handful of single people preparing to board flights, so my surroundings consist of only minimal activity; people watching is not at its peak.

On top of this, my subtle aggravation is due to lack of internet and the not-so-pleasant surprise of being charged fifty dollars for my carry-on luggage. This is the first and last time I don’t fly with Delta.

My first thoughts, once I realized that all other find internet seeking efforts had become futile, were my god…this place is desolate. Why on earth do we ever succumb to this environment? I have a short list of odd pet peeves that cause me to short circuit, but they include being bored, ugly carpeting, and having to be anywhere that I view as a cesspool of germs—which includes most modes of public transit, my own bedroom, and Chuck E. Cheese.

A bit dramatic, I know—but seriously, all aesthetics were displeasing: the food, the smell, even the carpeting. All I could was buy cheetos and coke (except for not because I’m trying to eat better), and stare outside… except there weren’t even planes to stare at outside the windows.

At this point, my flight has just been delayed which peeves me because I had a bus to catch to my cousin’s house that leaves only 20 minutes after I land. But if anything, I am welcoming this opportunity to test my patience. I will simply accept my setbacks with as much grace as possible and gain wisdom from my mistakes.

I think we can all agree that being stuck or waiting at an airport isn’t all that bad as long as there is Internet… but what if there isn’t?  What on earth do you do?

Here are my suggestions:

1.     Keep and bring a journal.
a.     Traveling is always an exciting experience. Take this time to be introspective and write down your thoughts about the trip you are either about to embark on or have just completed. You can’t put a price on experience, so record it while it’s still fresh in your mind.
b.     The great part about this suggestion is that you can literally journal on anything: a notebook (the one with paper and lines), your other notebook (known as a laptop), a napkin—anything.
2.     Bring a book.
a.     Why don’t we read anymore? It’s a sad thought sometimes.
b.     I think almost every airport has a place to buy a book. Or at least a newspaper. When was the last time you read something that wasn’t a Facebook status?
3.     Put your MP3 player on shuffle
a.     It will tickle your nostalgic side to hear a song you haven’t heard in quite a while. Sit back, relax, and listen to the surprises that play through your headphones.
4.     Strike up a conversation with a stranger.
a.     It’s amazing what you’ll learn. It’s also good to do so before boarding your plane because then you’re not required to talk to this person during the entire flight when all you want to keep keep to yourself and snack on your complimentary peanuts.
b.     I’ve personally learned a lot while traveling by forcing myself to stop being a scrooge and just talk to the people who are trying to be friendly. I feel that this is an art of conversation that is rapidly fading away, so help revive it! These quick conversations have provided me with people to visit when I’m in their neck of the woods, and even find internships. Seriously, I landed an internship talking to a stranger every morning that I ran into getting coffee before work.

Or you know… you could always start and maintain a blog. It definitely helps pass my time.

The moral of my story: these are best moments to try and/or learn something new. I think some of these tiny moments have even altered my life a bit: one of these moments landed me an internship and another on has helped paved my way to moving to France in the next four months. Wouldn’t you like to see what it does for you?

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